Family Fun at Christmas


Dear Reader

End of Year Musings

It's been a tough year in many respects - I've had several health challenges and some heart wrenching losses. Yet, looking back on the year, I realise it's been one of the best yet!

During it all, we (Neil and me) took time to clarify what we really want out of our life - right now. We love our home and decided to stay here for the foreseeable future, researching where our next move will take us when the time feels right for us both.

We've affirmed that what is a priority is our connections with those we love. It's these connections that keep our hearts warm and enrich our lives, regardless of what is happening.

We love our friends who live in close proximity - our book club and gym friends and those in other parts of our lives here in Hamilton. And those who live elsewhere throughout the world - mean more to us each passing day.

We love our families. Each family member means more than we could ever show or tell and this year, although we've caught up with quite a few who live here in New Zealand and some in Aussie, we miss those we haven't seen - those who live in some parts of Australia, in the USA, in Germany, and in Ethiopia.

My wish is that one day we'll all be together in the one place, enjoying the love and fun we've shared this year.

Family Get Togethers

A couple of years ago, we started a new tradition - getting together at this time of the year for a shared meal and a walk from our place to see the Christmas lights in a nearby street.

We appreciated the efforts our neighbours put into decorating their homes for our enjoyment!

And fun in the house

This year we spread our get together over three nights so we could enjoy time with those who couldn't make the designated evening.

Grandson Eli amused us with his skill in using the Snap Chat app. Here's his portraits of me and Neil. I must say, I enjoy the new look! I'm not sure Neil feels the same!

We really do look like old granny and gramps! Thank you Eli!

Seasons Greetings to you all

Here's to an amazing 2026 for us all - regardless of the downs we may face, may we all share the hope of enjoying the ups that always follow.

With love,
Stephanie


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Dalai Lama

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Helen Keller

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Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Dalai Lama

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Nelson Mandela


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